This is the best damn description of service Ive seen so far. A boy(slaveotrok not boi in pic below) posted
 this the other day and I want you all to read it even though it is rather long. (Notice who is on the bois screen)



Here are some general guidelines, from experience, to help those on the road bridge the gap between thinking about it and experiencing the
real fulfillment that only genuine self-sacrifice can bring. Do thoughts of kneeling before a woman and offering your open wallet to her make
your breathing deepen? Do you find yourself fantasizing about financial slavery, and masturbating to it, several times a week? Want to make it a reality,
but on a scale that is realistic and still offers you a safety cushion? • Find a Goddess who best shares your interests. Someone whom you admire from a
distance and who you would most like to be enslaved to. • Start understanding that the object is HER, not you. This is so important and beyond question
the hardest step to maintain. I suggest writing it down everywhere. Some little cryptic phrase that only you will understand, but that will remind you of the
truth when you need it most - in those moments when you're NOT staring at her, or her picture, with a raging stiffy and your wallet in your mouth.
Seeing "Remember who it's really for", or "Stop NOW! Think of Her for 30 seconds. Nothing ever comes before Her." on your blotter at work, or on your PDA
every day will go a long way to building up that critical link. It doesn't matter who She is - your wife, a friend, a stranger, an online Goddess.

Whomever she is, she is important to you and you should want to listen to her and make her happy. That, after all, is the whole point of this. • Start small,
 but regularly. Make the act of tribute something you do every day. Between the two of you, make it an expected ritual. Do it at the same time, wearing
the designated items, and/or in the designated position. The amounts, I suggest, should be minimal at first, growing much more significant later.
Allow yourself time to appreciate the pleasures of giving - slowly, quietly and ruthlessly regularly. Can you imagine how it will make her feel, even three
years  ahead, when she looks back at an unbroken chain of daily tributes? Of putting her before anything else. • Allow trust to build up -
 allow her online access to your bank account.

If not quite ready for this step, create a second account into which you transfer money. Give her access to this second account.
Understand the feelings generated in males like us when we log in and see the balance has changed. Be sure to send her a brief thank
you note for allowing you to serve her this way. Imagine yourself on the receiving end of this note, and how it will make her feel.
Remember who all this is really for. She will appreciate the treasure, literally and figuratively, she has in you and will work with you to find a balance
 (no pun intended) you can both live with and perhaps, over time, expand on. From her perspective, it's in her long-term interests not to violate the leap
 of faith you are taking for her. Pillaging your account may bring her short-term satisfaction but just cheats her of years of dedicated service.
 
It's especially foolish considering how truly rare slaves are who are willing to go this far. It's not like she gets this opportunity every week. •
If serving online, set up a webcam where she can see you making your tribute or doing task. Give her the pleasure of watching you show your daily
devotion in the manner she has chosen for you to do it. If your relationship is in an advanced stage, perhaps she will let you buy her a high
quality webcam so you can watch her accessing your bank account. How do you think that will make you feel? How do you think that will make her feel? •


Allow her access to your credit cards - as little or as much as you both feel comfortable with. Consider taking out a card, or multiple cards, specifically for her
- this is hers to use as she sees fit, under terms agreed by both of you. Imagine how this will make her feel, giving her the power and freedom. Showing
her you respect and trust her enough not to take you over the edge. It's the same with debit cards. Giving her access, and her own card, is a major
 step for both of you. • Another thing to consider is for her to open up an account at your bank. Set up an automatic transfer that will move money to
 this second account, to which only she has access, microseconds after it arrives. She can then transfer back into your account the amount of money she
decides you are to have, based on a previously agreed upon arrangement - enough to cover basic needs, bills, etc. • As you talk with her - either
online or in real life, and she casually mentions an interest - "Oh, I *love* his movies!" - quietly and without fuss write it down and remember it.
 

Surprise her on occasion, either just because or if she's in a blue mood. At the very least, this special Goddess should be shown how much you value
being in her service every week, in some unexpected way. • Quietly learn her interests, her charities. A donation - either occasional or regulary -
 to a cause or charity she passionately believes in will go a long way to showing her you appreciate her as an individual. Make the donation in her name,
not yours and if it's to one she knows you're opposed to or disagree with yourself, so much the better. • Let her downscale your budget a bit but,
initially at least, she should do this in very careful stages. The fantasy of sudden poverty is often far more attractive than the reality.
 But achieving reality  is the point of all this, is it not? Allow yourself, once comfort and trust have been achieved, to give up more and more control.
 
It really is so liberating to have financial pressures removed from your life. For both of you. • Between the two of you set a goal for
 sacrifice and work to that point. For example, "By the end of your third month of service, I expect 25% of your gross earnings to be freely
and willingly tributed to me. Within one year, I expect 50% to be mine. Within two years, you'll increase that to 75%." • Start keeping a record
of all your incomings and outgoings. Preferably one to which she has full access. Start monitoring your expenses. Ask yourself if there are areas
 you can cut back. Do you really need to buy that? Think of the new Donatella Versace she can get with that money. Think how happy it will
 make her feel, how privileged and special she will see herself. Do your very best to minimize your own expenses as much as you can, though
still leaving some room for the occasional treat for yourself. Don't be surprised if she is in a mood to give you a little treat every now and then herself.
 
Learn to appreciate these times, and feel grateful that she takes the time, makes the time, to show her appreciation for your consistent service to her needs.
• Squirrel away a small amount from the budget she allows you to have, and surprise her with a sudden gift. This does so much more than all the talk in the
 world to show her that she is the number one priority in your life. Those are the times when serving is really difficult, and the times when you must actively
 take the time to focus. Little reminders of why you do this will help, as will taking a small time out to get your focus back. But there will be times when
depression will come in to play - those are the times when the two of you need to work it out in whatever ways you've developed between you.


As long as you both maintain the goal of long term reality service, you should get through it - like any other relationship. • Both of you must NEVER
 forget this is serious edge play. This isn't a game, and isn't to be taken too lightly. You are playing with fundamental human emotions, feelings of raw
self-worth, and making conscious decisions with life changing consequences. The Goddesses especially should realize the seriousness of this. Understand
 your slave is a human being, with up and down cycles. With needs and fears - not a 'pathetic useless worm' or 'a wallet to be gutted, drained and tossed away'.
 
These images have their place in this world of ours, and I'm not knocking them - but they are not conducive to long term, reality financial service. While female
 feelings should ALWAYS be the priority, Goddesses - ignore your slaves needs/desires/fetishes at your peril. It is such a small thing to 'toss him a bone'
and lightly push his buttons to keep him focused on you on a daily basis, especially when he is away from you. A text message to his mobile - "Work harder, my
ATM - I feel like treating myself to a relaxing full body massage next week." or "Go to a private place, NOW. Kneel, bring out my wallet and meditate in
front of it for 10 real minutes. Text your feelings when you're finished." - will go a long, long way to keeping him focused on what is really important and are effortless to give.
 

It will take him immediately away from the world of strutting male arrogance and bring him, for a while at least, back to your feet. Back to those feelings
 of devoted sacrifice that course through him in your presence. I'm not saying to cater or pander to his fetishes, except at a
time and place
 of your choosing
- but don't ignore them either. Remember - they're what brought him to you in the first place. Now don't you feel foolish???? Goddess